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We are here!

After a year of planning, paperwork, discussions, selling most of our belongings and our house, visa rejections, living with 10 different gracious friends and family, getting rid of more, packing and more planning, we have arrived. We are in Spain! How did we get there? Good question… 

Picking up our rental car in Wisconsin- the very beginning of our voyage.

Sunday evening, December 8th, we kissed Paul’s parents goodbye and drove a rental car down to an Airbnb close to Chicago. Just like our whole experience this year, we had a plan in place, but not everything went as planned. The plan was to be able to return our rental car within the time limit, then spend a good chunk at the Chicago airport, seeing the different attractions, watching planes, leisurely eating at a restaurant, and enjoying the kids’ first experience of flying. So, we arrived at 11am the next morning ready to drop off the car and were told that we couldn’t check our bags until four hours before the flight (2pm). Maybe this is common knowledge, but neither of us had realized it. So, we drove to grab a quick bite at a restaurant, dropped of the car at the minute it was due, and lugged our incredibly heavy luggage to the check-in to wait. Not exactly the glorious adventure at the airport that I had promised. The kids were good sports, though, and when we finally did get through to our Terminal, they enjoyed watching the planes take off, played card games, and even found dogs to pet.

We were pleasantly surprised when we did board our plane, as it was brand new and very nice. Noah and Paul sat in the seats behind Natalie and Abigail so that each child could have a window seat. We waited an hour on the runway and felt a little like Brian Regan, but Noah and Natalie were still just as excited at take-off. Each seat had little screens with movie and game selections, as well as a map that showed the progress of the plane. Noah and Paul enjoyed playing battleship, while Natalie and I looked at the map. Since we were flying a Portuguese airline, we enjoyed our dinner of Portuguese food- little containers of lettuce with small packets of oil and vinegar, a warm dish of rice and delicious chicken in red sauce, and a small sponge cake with a layer of fruity jam. Natalie ended up sleeping a wonderful six hours, but Noah only had one, and Paul and I had less than that. We kept up with our no-jet-lag pills, which proved to work really well for the ladies over the next couple of days.

Our first view of Portugal, where we had a short layover before our final destination of Barcelona, was stunning. The sun came over the horizon to display a brilliant sunrise over the coast. After landing, we spent a few hours at the Lisbon airport, ate some apples and dates to lighten our load, and got a phone card for Abigail’s phone. We ported our numbers to a holding company while we are gone, and we enjoy paying $10-20/month for calling and data, comparatively to our large verizon bill! 

Notice the Football store behind us- a good intro to Europe!

Our second plane ride was so short that we barely remember it, but the sun was shining and our spirits were glad. When we picked up our luggage in Barcelona, we became even more grateful that we had the past six months to keep getting rid of more! We pack-muled it all to the Barcelona train station and used the commuter trains to take us down to Calafell, our new home town. As we rode, our first glimpse of the Mediterranean was stunning- sparkling blue water with Spanish brick-topped houses set on sandy beaches. We soaked in the beauty of God’s brilliant creation.

After two days of traveling, we prepared ourselves for the final leg- finding the local bus, getting tickets, hauling our luggage and figuring out how to get off. It seemed daunting. However, as I texted our host that we would arrive shortly, I received a quick reply that he would pick us up at the train station! We were so grateful and relieved. Luis, in his little black car, greeted us with smiles and enthusiasm as he shoved our possessions in (marveling at how much we needed for “one month”, as he didn’t know our later plans) and gave us a zippy ride around the town to his apartment. He put his son, Pau, on the phone to translate, as Luis did not know much English. We started to realize that because we are in Northern Spain, Catalonia, people do not speak “Spanish”, they speak Catalan, an entirely different Romance language similar to spanish, french and italian, and a language we were not at all familiar with! Luis gave us a quick tour of the spacious apartment and outside area, then left us to fall into our beds. 

Exhaustion and Awe and Uncertainty and Relief mixed in our hearts as we looked at each other and exclaimed more than once- “We are here, we’re in Spain!” After a year of planning, paperwork, discussions, selling most of our belongings and our house, visa rejections, living with 10 different gracious friends and family, getting rid of more, packing and more planning, we have arrived. We are in Spain! 

Wisconsin Christmas

We have two days left in the United States before our trek across the ocean. Paul’s one request when we planned our timing to leave was that we would be able to be with family for at least one holiday. His wish was fulfilled with abundance! We traveled to Minnesota last weekend to celebrate Nedrud Thanksgiving, and squished in Christmas traditions with Nana and Papa. This last week we celebrated Lexen Christmas in Wisconsin.

Noah and Natalie hung the Christmas ornaments on the tree with Grandma Jane. We enjoyed hearing the stories about each ornament. So many were handmade, given from special places, or to mark special occasions. Some ornaments came with funny stories, and all were unique and beautiful.

Yesterday we made lots of cut-out cookies, and lots of mess. There are no photos of the decorations because it would be hard to capture it all in one photo, as the frosting and sprinkles were spread through multiple rooms. Fun with Grandma made it all worth it. Then again, she did all of the dishes, so it’s easy for us to say! We are glad to know that the rest of the extended Lexen family will enjoy the cookies for the rest of the holiday season.

Christmas songs are playing on the record player, and decorations around the house will keep us in the holiday spirit until we leave in two more days. What a beautiful time of memory-making that we will look back at for years to come.

Minnesota Thanksmas

Nana Pam taught Natalie a new song this November, to the tune of “Are you sleeping, Brother John” :

Turkey, stuffin’, 

cornbread muffins, 

pumpkin pie- 

one mile high. 

We were all much thinner,

before we came to dinner. 

Me, oh, my. 

Me, oh, my!

Papa, Nana, Uncle David and our family started off a weekend of holiday celebrations by acting out this Thanksgiving song at the table, complete with four pies for seven people! Our abundance of food was an apt reminder of the lavish amount of good things that we have. We spent time around the table sharing about the many friends, homes, experiences and gifts that we are thankful for. 

We were able to take time the next day to visit extended family for a short three-hour period before the snow hurried us home. It was so good to have some concentrated family time to soak in before our long trip away from them.

The rest of our holiday weekend with the Nedruds was filled with Christmas fun, filling us with yuletide cheer as we did so many of the Nedrud Christmas traditions together, albeit a month early. 

The Sunday morning worship service was cancelled due to snow, so we enjoyed advent readings and Papa’s teaching, with interactive help from Noah.

We spontaneously sang carols around the table, lit an advent candle, opened tiny stocking gifts (homemade felt dolls that the kids can take in their backpacks), and read Christmas books by the fire. We were even able to put on a few holiday clothes and snap some pictures to remind the kids that we did actually get to have a White Christmas in 2019.

Our hearts are full, and when December 25th rolls around, we will enjoy knowing that we did not miss out on many Christmas enjoyments, even though we will be on the other side of the world celebrating a Spanish Christmas!

Star Wars Birthday

A traditional Lexen celebration is breakfast-in-bed on the morning of a birthday. The birthday person usually wakes up early to remind everyone of their special day (in case the rest of the family forgets), then runs back under the bed covers while the rest of us make a parade into the room, singing happy birthday and holding a tray of breakfast and lit candles. After the birthday person blows out the candles, they open small gifts and nibble at the special food. Inevitably, we leave that person to eat in peace and they end up sneaking down to eat with the rest of us in order to continue sharing in the joy of the celebration.

This narrative did not change in Wisconsin and we all enjoyed celebrating Noah’s birthday with the same tradition that both Paul and his dad grew up with.

Noah’s birthday Breakfast in Bed. Cousins even got to help bring up his breakfast!

The rest of Noah’s 8th birthday was surrounded by his latest love- all things Star Wars. Light sabers, cakes and cousins completed his party.

Something that we have missed living far from family in Sioux Falls is getting to celebrate birthdays together. This year Noah had all of his cousins except one surrounding him as he turned eight years old. While we miss a lot of friends, we are so grateful to be with family.

Noah’s Uncle Graham had a birthday just a few days beforehand, so we combined the party and celebrated them together.

Even the food had Star Wars titles, compliments of Paul and his Dad.

The evening ended with Grandpa’s fitting bedtime story.

The day was marked as “one of my best birthdays ever”, according to the eight-year-old.

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